Breathe Deep, Breathe Slow & Breathe Easy 🩵

Mr. America came to visit me last week for the first time, booking several weeks in advance.

Upon his arrival, I greeted him with a close embrace to calm his nerves and took time to chat with him for a while. He thanked me for giving him time to build rapport and trust between us because he was still very nervous.

I asked him if he’d like a shower and he took me up on my offer. He came out of the shower wearing only a towel. I reached my arms out and hugged him for a few minutes, allowing him to feel my lingerie against his naked skin, and used my hands to caress his body to help him feel comfortable with my sensual touch, attempting to calm his nerves further. After sometime, I asked him to lay face down on my massage table to allow him to relax before his trip back home to the USA in a few days.

I was teasing him and massaging him for a while. He was getting hard and had to reposition ‘himself’ from under his body. After several minutes of massage and teasing, I came to the foot of the bed, hopped up between his thighs and used my forearms to slowly slide from his lower back to his upper shoulders, gently brushing my breasts against his bare back. He didn’t even realize that I was fully undressed until he felt my naked body on top of his.

I asked him to flip over after many minutes of teasing with my hands and finger tips, massaging with my forearms and breasts, gentle kisses on his neck and blowing in his ear. I took his hand and placed it on my bum, communicating my consent for mutual touch non-verbally. I poured some warm oil on my hands, dripping it on his quads and allowing a few moments for it to cool enough to pour all over his cock, which he absolutely loved. I massaged his quads which I encouraged him to grab my bum as hard as he could (I love that!).

I hopped on the massage table facing him, continuing to tease his cock while I kissed his neck and allowed him to smell my irresistible pheromones. After some time of teasing and driving him absolutely wild, I turned myself around and straddled him, sitting on his chest and facing his cock. I kept teasing him, lifting my body off his, blowing on his cock and giving him a great view. After driving him insane, I decided to use one hand to gently stroke him, and a finger on the other hand to go inside of him for his first prostate massage. He could no longer hold back and allowed himself to let go, cumming so hard that he said his fingers were tingling. He begged for his bottle of water as he was breathing short and shallow breaths. I actually felt him getting harder as he was cumming, which was new for me.

It seemed as though he was hyper ventilating, and he kept needing more water. I gave him his bottle that I provided earlier, and he was taking his time calming down. He said the only time he’s ever felt these tingling fingers was during a panic attack but he said this was different and that he’s never experienced this during an orgasm before. I wondered if it had to do with the teasing and/or the first time prostate combined orgasm, but this certainly would have been the perfect opportunity to practice some breathing exercises. I asked him if he can cum a second time and he said sometimes.

I grabbed some hot towels to clean him up and

I was caressing his body while I was encouraging him to calm down. He was still hard and he said he could actually go again. I always like to make sure a person is entirely spent within our time together before releasing them back into the world.

I knelt on the bed beside him, kissing his neck while I was stroking his cock with my right hand and he came again. His load shot up and across the room landing onto my calve. I made him cum a second time within 10 minutes and even his second climax was like he was cumming for the first time.

I suggested that next time we make him cum at the beginning of our session and then allow for him to recoup, relax and give himself some time to breathe while I give him a massage, teasing him for buildup number two combined with a prostate massage for his grand finale. I think breathing exercise may be helpful for those who experience these tingling fingers, which I’ve experienced a handful of times with different individuals.

Mr. America had a theory that perhaps this was a similar response with panic attacks that acts on the sympathetic nervous system. According to the Cleveland Clinic, the sympathetic nervous system is our body’s “fight-or-flight” response to danger or stress, this includes preparing the body to escape this perceived danger by increasing heart rate and breathing to improve oxygen to organs, dilating pupils to improve eyesight and slowing digestion to disperse energy to other areas in our body. (In contrast, the parasympathetic nervous system relaxes the sympathetic nervous system in ways such as lowering blood pressure or heart rate.)

I think Mr. America makes a great point and I agree that his response was working on the same pathways as a panic attack with the sympathetic nervous system. However, I know that it wasn’t a stress response (as he said that it was different than a panic attack) - but perhaps, as I mentioned earlier, the shallow breathing caused the activation of the sympathetic nervous system, tricking the body into thinking it was responding to stress even though there was no perceived threat. Typically a person will see a threat and the sympathetic nervous system kicks in. Conversely, in this situation, I think that things happened in a reverse order where the breathing happened first and the body responded creating a similar experience.

Breathing is important to keep us calm. Always remember to breathe through those difficult times, breathe when you are lifting weights and never hold your breath for things to come to you - take initiative to make things happen because our time on earth is short and our opportunities to live a great life can pass us by. 🩵