I wanted to share this email I received over the weekend from GreGarious. We have never met before but I deeply appreciated the openness and honesty with, not only me, but also with himself. I responded to the email and asked I could share this email because it spoke to the appreciation of Robin Curious' blog and the normalization of masturbation. In addition, GreGarious expressed vulnerability which can be difficult for many people (especially men), given the expectations of toxic masculinity outlined in society and cultural norms. Being aware of thoughts and feelings, and acknowledging them out loud are huge steps to making changes in life towards happiness and self-actualization.
I also wanted to express a deep gratitude towards those who have taken the time to read my blog and to those who have taken time out of their day to share their thoughts, whether its through their own submission or sending me a text/email expressing their appreciation for my writings and shared posts. I am honored that I am able to move people and I am seeing that my vision for this blog is coming to fruition. I hope that this post below can help those who may feel shy as this is a very normal experience, especially if you have not visited a service provider before. Thank you for your continued support.
"In this very brief time that I discovered your website I have read all of your blogs - and enjoyed every one of them.
Regarding this latest one - the person who wrote it definitely gets it when referring to self love.
We would all be lying to ourselves if we say that we don't masturbate in our own worlds - whether it be by watching porn or thinking of a service provider or favourite schoolteacher in our younger days. There will be some who even pleasure themselves while thinking about their wife or husband or significant other, although I'm sure that is not the case for most of us - myself included if I can be open and honest.
Now if I can be even more open - I have to admit that I was immediately turned on while engaging in reading your webpages and admiring your extremely gorgeous photos while fantasizing what an encounter with you would be like. As I've said before - I'm a somewhat shy person so to be able to open myself up to actually say that, and be able to admit to you that I could pleasure myself while thinking of being with you - that's something I have never put into words before.
Even getting naked in front of you as you watch is a huge step for me - but it's something that I really need to do.
Thank-you for being you - and allowing me to express my feelings and desires."
GreGarious
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