It’s Never Too Late

As I’m heading to a funeral today, I’m reflecting on this concept. It’s never too late. It’s only too late when you have passed away.

Many people choose not to go back to school because they say they are too old and it’s too late. Some people prefer not to change careers and stay unhappy because they are stuck in their ways and they feel like it’s too late anyway. Some people choose not to go to live a healthy lifestyle because they claim it’s too late. But it’s never too late.

I talked about the 80-year-old, that I have the pleasure of knowing and seeing regularly, on Twitter/X. He likes to explore sexually. He has a sounding kit, cock rings that he experiments with and he even tried his first prostate massage with me not too long ago. He is a widower but he still dates because, for him, it’s not too late.

In our last session, I sat between his thighs. He laid there for two hours while I edged him, teased him, experimented with a vibrator on him, used slight pain/pressure and even used his cock rings to wrap his penis and balls in various ways. He relaxed with his eyes closed, enjoying every sensual touch, moaning with delight with some light pain infliction (at his request), not knowing what to expect next.

He loved every little bit of it and felt a total sense of bliss and relaxation. He told me many stories between him and his late wife and how they used to explore sexually. They had a very healthy sexual relationship. He told shared stories of all the times that he used to make her orgasm and told me how he used to pleasure her in various ways with different toys. He also told me that he (still) loves going down on women, and he loves also receiving.

I hate the term “dirty old man”. It is used in the context to insinuate that men of a certain age should not be allowed to be aroused by younger women or enjoy pleasure and, if they do, they’re “dirty”. There is no age limit on experiencing life.

Even he understands that there are so many ways to have fun sexually. He has lived his life to the fullest, and he still open and willing to live and explore. Unhappy with your situation? Change it. Want to try something new? Do it. Take control of your life now to improve the quality of life and time that you have left.

He has the wisdom and a whole lifetime of experience to understand that it’s only too late when our time is up on earth.