My thoughts on masturbation; I have enjoyed the practice of self love for decades and believe it to be a healthy, safe practice that is beneficial to ones wellbeing. It is a way of letting your mind wander and partake in sexual exploits that you may never get the opportunity to experience in real life. It doesn’t hurt anyone, no matter what you are fantasizing about. Weather your fantasies are about other individuals or activities that you may never get the pleasure of enjoying; while masturbating to these thoughts you at least get to escape and enjoy the time Away from reality.
As a teenager I had a pillow that was the shape of a 20” circle, I would write the name of a girl I was fantasizing about at the time on the pillow and hump the pillow to completion, I would cum in me underwear at the time. I was unaware that i could take my penis in my hand and stroke myself off to completion into a tissue. I was taught that at 12 years of age and that soon became my favourite activity, using porn magazines that I found under my fathers bed as material to stimulate my thoughts. Jerking off sometimes 4 or 5 times a day, enjoying the escape from day to day stresses and being able to enjoy whatever fantasies came to mind. Even after marriage “me time” was extremely important and necessary. In a sexless marriage it became a necessary activity to save my sanity and the marriage. The internet has become the source of material that now leaves very little to the imagination for any masturbation fantasies. You can find absolutely anything you want to stimulate your thoughts and pleasure yourself with. So masturbate, enjoy, indulge, “me time” is for you! Robin Curious
Well written, Robin.