I met a lovely couple on Saturday. They had such a beautiful chemistry between them. She was outgoing, fearless, and beautiful inside and out. He was more quiet and reserved but also, surprisingly, I didn’t experience him to be shy in this particular situation, although he may be in other situations.
He worked up the courage to set up the appointment with me. Something outside of the norm for him. He is somebody who is reserved with his sexuality and, yet, somehow felt confident enough to reach out to give me the privilege to share with him and his wife.
They told me that they have been together for many years and she is the only person that he has been with. She shared that she is supportive of him exploring with other women, but he has never pursued this opportunity. She said that she has a higher sex drive than he does, but she is respectful of his boundaries and what he is comfortable with in terms of her own exploration with others.
When they first came in, I had the opportunity to sit and chat with them. To see the dynamics and the love between them was so beautiful. He shared that it was really difficult for him to bring up this idea with her, not because he didn’t trust her, but because this was something outside of his comfort zone that he’s never done before. They told me that when he found the courage to bring it up, she was all in. They talked about the blog that I wrote last week and she said that if he didn’t explain to her exactly what type of massage this was, she would have been upset too. But because he was up front right away and he set the right expectations for her, she had no hesitation.
After some chatting, I suggested we move to the massage room. I asked them who should be up on the table first. He said that he wanted to watch her get a massage. She wanted to keep her underwear on, and I was totally supportive of her decision.
He sat on my chair watching while I massaged her. Chatting with them both and asking questions was intriguing. At some point, I put him on the spot by asking him (specifically) what they do sexually. She was enjoying this, knowing the type of person he is and watching someone else bring him outside of his comfort zone was exciting to her.
After some time massaging her, I asked her to flip over and she did. I also asked her if she would like him to come help us and she said yes. “Come massage your wife with me” I playfully ordered him. I could tell they both liked it.
He was excited to watch. He shared that he was excited that he was “going to get a break” (from pleasuring her). I didn’t take this though as a derogatory sense because it sounds like he really enjoys giving her pleasure, but rather I think he meant this in the sense he is excited that he gets to watch her receive pleasure from someone else other than himself.
We were massaging her legs together, still chatting, and he asked when it would be his turn to receive a massage. He said he was excited to watch her receive pleasure, but also wanted to receive pleasure as well. I had an idea. I told him to lay beside her face up.
When I custom made my massage table, I ensured that it was wide enough for two people to fit if they were laying shoulder to shoulder. And they both fit perfectly, her on the right (my left if facing them) and him to her left (my right).
I was massaging their quads together, giving them the same experience as I moved my hands up and down their inner and outer thigh. One hand on each person, teasing her clit with my left hand, and his penis at the same time with my right. Changing the pressure from firm massage to light tickle and everywhere in between. I started rubbing clit and she was moaning with pleasure. I was teasing the head of his penis, running my nails gently down his shaft and into his balls.
I asked her if I could go get my wand vibrator and she said yes. I brought it from my “storage room” and cleaned it off with my bed cleaner (even though it was already clean to begin with - you can never be too clean).
I used it on her clit while I started stroking him. They were both laying beside each other, kissing and caressing each other while they were both experiencing pleasure from me simultaneously. Just giving them a chance to connect, relax and not have to worry about each other’s pleasure but rather indulge in the pleasure they were both receiving simultaneously from myself.
She was moaning with delight. She was enjoying every moment as I got him closer and closer, eventually bringing him over the edge. He came really hard and she loved it.
I asked her what she needs to cum, and she said manual clitoral stimulation. She said she has tried many times with a vibrator, but it is overstimulating for her.
Although she didn’t orgasm, she was satisfied. She was happy that he had the opportunity to explore, and I think she was even happier that she was by his side throughout the experience. She was spoiled with a massage and, although he didn’t get as much of a massage as she did, he was spoiled with some teasing while watching his wife receive pleasure while simultaneously experiencing a climax by someone else while he had his best friend by his side.
I thought this couple was amazing because, not only the differences between them in terms of openness with their sexuality, but also the fact that it was him who decided to invite a third person into their relationship with her by his side in a safe and controlled setting. He shared that he was drawn to my website because I explore slowly and I have my restrictions, which he said was important to him given how novel this experience is. I replied to the effect that I like to focus on the experience and respecting everyone’s restrictions.
My favourite type of experience is not putting pressure on the end goal of the climax, but rather focusing on the journey to get there (if it even happens - which is not always important). I was lucky that this beautiful couple seemed to share the same sentiment.
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