Trigger Warning: Talk of familial (by blood and marriage) sexual interactions & sexual abuse
I wrote on Twitter/X about the couple I had this week. I’ve known Mr. C for 4 years. He is in a sexless marriage and so he brought his girl, Mrs. A, to our session.
He shared that he had known her for years - she is only a few years older than him and she is also in a sexless marriage. In my presence, he turns very feminine but around most women he is as masculine as they come.
She said she was nervous. She didn’t know who I was, where she was going. She was worried about discretion given the high level position of her job and I reassured her that both his and her secrets are safe with me. She was a beautiful 50-something woman - cute face, gorgeous body. I handed him a pair of panties and a butt plug to change into while her and I had a toast and took the time to chat and connect.
When he came out, she didn’t seem as aroused as I was by this feminization process but we still found a way to have fun and connect. We stood on either side of him, with each of us playing with each other’s breasts. Laying Mr. C face down, Mrs. A and I massaged him. I showed her how to make him have an internal, prostate-only orgasm by playing with his perineum, which was also enhanced by the butt plug. The vibrations can radiate down towards the prostate if the sensation is right for the individual and they are comfortable enough to let go.
Mr. C stood up and laid Mrs. A down on her back with her legs up in the air on my massage table. I bent down behind him and stuck my fingers inside of him. As he slid his cock inside of her, he was asking, “do you like that zia?”
“Zia?!” I asked
And they both admitted that she was his zia. Zia is aunt in Italian. Although not blood related, she married into his family, were still close in age and have known each other for a long time so they were basically almost like blood family.
“Please take our picture!” they begged. I ensured to exclude any discerning features and I allowed them to review the photo before I posted it today.
She dropped to her knees to suck his cock while
I slid on the strap on. It’s been a while since I’ve fucked him with a strap on and a first time for him to have his cock sucked while being fucked.
He orgasmed with joy but he wasn’t done.
She stood up and he bent her over. As he grabbed her hard, I slid on the strap on cock inside of him. Now he was fucking while being fucked. We switched into multiple positions, including having Mr. C lay down while I bent his legs back and used the strap on while she sat on and smothered his face and sucked his cock. She kept repeating how crazy and fun the whole experience was for her.
After multiple orgasms from her, and from him, they had to quickly return to reality. This will certainly not be the last time we will meet and she was ecstatic to have a safe space to play when she has to have her sexual needs met from her nephew.
My Take
It was so much fun to share this experience and many of you may (or may not) find the idea of relational sexual contact troublesome (or even triggering). As long as certain criteria are being met, they is nothing unethical about it.
1.Reproduction
It is interesting because I’ve had many conversations related to shame around sexuality, particularly in women, that are shaped by our culture (influenced by religion) for enjoying sex and seeking it out for other purposes other than reproduction. In this case, I believe that as long as the parties are interacting for sexual purposes and entertainment only, I don’t find the act of blood (or, in this case, by marriage) “wrong”’- so to speak.
Evolutionarily, we are obviously discouraged from interacting sexually with those who are genetically related to us due to the risk of having unhealthy and perhaps unviable offspring. As long as we are not aiming to reproduce children, and not involving other parties in our decisions which can affect their quality of life, I don’t believe there are any unethical issues.
2. Consent
Consent is always very important in any sexual interaction. In order to consent, a person must be of a particular age and sound of mind in order to make the decision to understand what they are consenting to. If both parties are consenting, and not looking to reproduce, what is the issue around these types of interactions?
A lot of people may be triggered by this, especially because a lot of childhood sexual abuse are more likely occur by those who are close to us - not strangers.
Some people may find this erotic - which may also be triggered by abuse in the past or even the idea of doing something “naughty” or “taboo” - which many people find a turn on and is much more common than the average person may realize (trust me - I hear these about it all the time).
As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, you have permission to enjoy and explore your sexuality. There is nothing wrong with you if you like the taboo.
Consent and understanding are paramount, as you’ve mentioned and leaves nothing untoward in my mind. It’s an interesting dynamic within the social constraints and expectations of a family situation but great that they can have an enjoyable relationship with you as part of their encounters.